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[gluttoning]

I thought I was, sure. But you said you felt your opinion was invalidated, right? That can happen when someone doesn't listen closely to you, or if they don't understand that something is important to you.

You got up and left pretty fast. I don't know you very well yet, Hani. But it felt like you wanted some space.

I don't know how else you felt.

[tinged]

I’ll write this down in my notes as something to consider.

[ literally typing it all out in their phone, saving it in the same location as justy’s beyoncé love lessons. ]

Oh. I’m sorry. I didn’t really understand what I was feeling at the time. I think.

And I don’t know how to handle being frustrated.

I just needed to do something for a little while.

But I came back!

[gluttoning]

You dont have to apologize. If you were frustrated I think you made a good choice. Letting off steam can help.

And I'm really glad you came back. I don't remember a lot. But I was worried about you being on your own without us.

I thought maybe you didn't want a picnic anymore.

[tinged]

[ ah, more notes. ]

No! No. It was the complete opposite. I’d like another picnic with you.

It sounds a little like you didn’t have much fun though. Am I wrong?

[gluttoning]

I liked most of it.

I feel I made a big mistake, though.

[tinged]

I thought you were enough as you are.

What big mistake?

[gluttoning]

Some stuff I did. Some stuff I said to Morgan.

It's not anyone's fault. I just felt like an idiot after.

[tinged]

Oh.

[ hani thinks about it. and then they type a bunch of stuff that maybe only makes sense to them. ]

But will this stop you from picnicking with us again?

We have to learn how to hurt before we can learn how to heal. I don’t think that makes you an idiot, but your brain may say otherwise, and that’s fine. I just don’t think so.

But please keep in mind we are still learning you and you are still learning us. And maybe still learning yourself?

I think we should be encouraging Bear-kun rather than putting him down for learning. I really like Bear-kun.